Hello everyone! It’s been a while since I’ve written anything, here or elsewhere, and there are reasons. But I am back, and I hope to update you all more often.
Those of you who have read my bio know I am a huge fan of the Goo Goo Dolls and of U2. A big reason why I’m inspired to write today is I am between Goo Goo Dolls shows. Last Thursday, in Scranton, PA, I had the wonderful opportunity to meet John Rzeznik and Robby Takac again. Although I had met them before, the thought of meeting them again brought me great excitement. I started to get interested in things once more. Although the meeting was very short, it re-inspired me on many levels. John complimented me very enthusiastically on one of my tattoos, and told me to have a fun night. And I did.
This experience, along with the concert itself and being among other fans, was what I needed to come out of a mild rut and start working on the things I believe in and want to do in life once more. I’ve wanted to be a life coach for many years and worked on it in dribs and drabs, but was floundering with that dream. I also want to be a writer and a motivational speaker. All of these things got a shot in the arm Thursday night.
Notice how I didn’t say I want to “get faster” or “get stronger”. Ideally, I do. But it’s not likely to happen because those are areas of my life that depend on the capacity of my heart and lungs. I have to be reasonable with what I expect in terms of physical fitness.
I do not have to be reasonable regarding my ability to help others through my coaching, writing, or speaking. I can be totally radical in those areas. There are no excuses anymore for holding back.
Concerts tend to inspire me, especially when they are with my favorite bands. One of my first coaching lessons required the learners to list 100 things that light our fires and make us feel good and want to move forward. What makes you move? What stirs your heart and lights a fire in your belly? What can you be grateful for? Look around. What do you see that has beauty?
Things don’t have to be miraculous or big to be inspiring. And when we feel depressed or weak, we can still choose to find something to be grateful for. There is always some way we can do good for others, regardless of ability.
I saw two severely disabled fans at the concert. One was in a wheelchair and looked very frail, however she smiled and clapped and danced in her seat during the whole show, having a great time. The other was young and walked very slowly with a cane. I am not to the point of needing assistance yet, but am impressed with these two ladies. They were not at home feeling sorry for themselves. With the support of family or friends, they made it to the concert despite their hurdles. I hope when I get to that stage I will be blessed with people who will take me to shows, and that I have the will to go. These women inspired me almost as much as the band.
Think about your life. Make your list of 100 inspiring things. If you try hard enough, you will find them. If you can’t find 100, find 50. Or 10. Or 1. And act on your inspiration. Do something with it. Share it with others